This site has gone nowhere. I had grand plans.
My wife got sick in June of 2011, she ended up quitting her job. I did not have the money to continue classes. Things were not going well. I put on some more weight, my stress level was beyond maxed out. In Feb of 2012 she told me she wanted a divorce. It's not what I wanted. I admit that things were tough and that we were both very stressed. It took me a while to accept it, it being the divorce. We are still in the process of getting divorced. Things are not moving along as fast as I would like.
I have not given up on my dream to learn Brazilian Jew-Jitsu, life has delayed my journey. It is my hope that when the divorce is finalized and and I've had some time to regroup and evaluate things I will be able to resume my journey.
I don't think anyone has ever read this, but that's my update.